Safety & verification
Four pillars under everything we do. Below you can read exactly how it works, without empty promises.
Verification first
We check every profile by hand before it goes online, with a verification photo that only we can see. For an agency, we review every person separately.
Discreet contact
Visitors browse without an account. Contact runs directly by phone or WhatsApp, outside our platform; we do not read along.
GDPR compliant
Hosting in the Netherlands, encrypted connections and as little data as possible. We delete verification photos automatically after the retention period.
Anti-trafficking
Reports of coercion or exploitation get priority in our queue and are looked at by a person.
How we verify
We refuse anyone who will not be verified. That sounds strict, and it is. It is our licence to operate in this industry.
- Every profile reviewed by hand before it goes online, usually within 24 hours
- A verification photo per person, seen only by our review team and never shown on the site
- Agencies provide a separate verification for each person; every profile is reviewed separately
If we reject a profile, the advertiser is told the reason. The label Profile verified appears only on profiles whose verification photo we have checked; approval alone is not enough.
Personal review
For every profile, without exception.
Discretion as standard
You decide what you share and when. Your contact details stay private until you choose to reveal them.
- A profile name instead of your real name
- You decide which photos and details are visible
- Only our team sees your verification photo, never a visitor
- Visitors only see your number when they click Show number
- If you close your account, your profiles go offline immediately and we delete your verification photos within 28 days
This protects you against unwanted approaches and risks to your private life.
Your privacy first
Data only goes a step further once you give permission.
GDPR compliant, in the Netherlands
We handle data in accordance with the General Data Protection Regulation, with extra care because of the sensitivity of the industry.
- Hosting in the Netherlands: the platform and your data are on servers in the Netherlands
- Encrypted connections across the whole site, and encrypted sessions
- As little data as possible: we only ask for what is needed
- Cleaned up automatically: we delete verification photos and IP addresses after their retention period
- Right of access, rectification and erasure: we respond to your request within a month
- No tracking without consent: statistics only if you choose them yourself
Data protected
Hosting in the Netherlands, encrypted connections and as little data as possible.
Ready for the Wrs
The Dutch Sex Work Regulation Act (Wet regulering sekswerk, Wrs) changes the playing field. Where possible, we already apply the requirements.
- Minimum age 21+ for advertisers and for visitors
- Help and information: below you will find independent organisations, open to everyone
- No mediation: we are an advertising platform and do not make appointments on behalf of advertisers
- Updated as soon as the final law takes effect
Compliant by design
Not waiting for the law, but applying it now where possible.
Where you can turn
Independent organisations with the support and enforcement expertise that we do not have in-house. You can contact them directly, also without going through us.
The national coordination centre against human trafficking. You can report a suspicion of exploitation here, also anonymously.
comensha.nl →Support for sex workers who want to leave the industry or need help. Confidential and without obligation.
scharlakenkoord.nl →Independent information about rights, safety and tax for sex workers in the Netherlands.
sekswerk.info →